Honestly - we've done so much communicating by email throughout this whole process that it's tempting to write a manifesto, but a real 180 would be to just say to him straightforwardly......
We do this, too. I get really tired of communicating by email, I don't see why we can't just sit down somewhere and have a real discussion. I've suggested this but it never happens. I don't know what he's afraid of, I was never one to scream and yell anyway, what does he think is going to happen if he actually speaks to me? Grrr...