Thanks, ladies. I'm OK today. Later he emailed some comments about sharing parenting time with the girls and I was very annoyed that he mentioned wanted to arrange things to maximize his "free" time. Hello, we have three kids, who guaranteed him "free" time? But I didn't respond that way, I just said it was something we could speak to the MC about on Friday, she's also a family therapist who works with children so I'm sure she'll have some suggestions.
After nearly five months of limbo, things seem to be happening very quickly now. The next couple of weeks will be interesting.
