No - it's firmly in my brain now, so I don't think I can forget it. Not sure what moment to seize or how to make my plan. Honestly - we've done so much communicating by email throughout this whole process that it's tempting to write a manifesto, but a real 180 would be to just say to him straightforwardly, "You say you're not lying to me, but catching you sneak around is embarrassing to both of us. I've been clear that I don't want to be in a marriage where there is a third party. I need to stop pretending that there isn't one. Let me know if you ever get rid of her and we'll see where we are. Until then, I'm not interested in physical contact or flirting with you."
This morning the cat was rubbing up against him and he said, "Well, at least SOMEONE is showing me some love today." I didn't bite. Later, he told me that I looked AMAZING in a dress yesterday and I laughed. "Your laugh sounds fake," he chided me. "Does it?" I answered.
Wow. He's the Amazing Kreskin, that one.
Today he is firing an employee, and he says it could go "very badly." I don't know what that means, other than he's doing it at the end of the day and will be home late.
He's leaving early in the morning for OWs city for the rest of the week.
