I have always given cards and flowers for anniversary and we go out to eat. Over the last 9 months she has not accepted any gifts from me accept on her birthday. She takes her birthday seriously. She hates being alone with me and avoids situations where that happens. Can't even get her to go out for dinner but she goes out with her man friend that she has an emotional bond with at least once a week. Gifts are important to her but just not from me lately.
W-44,M-57 Married 20 D-17,S-13 W and I own our own business and work together.
