Hey Turn ol buddy keep your chin up . You are doing great . When i feel like its all in vain I go back a read many old posts so as to refresh me and get me on the right track . Remember Mr bonds " Be the lighthouse " its been helping me .

As far as affairs dying a natural death , I do believe in that . But the trick is to keep her when it does die . I worry about my wifes leaving and the affair dying and then she decides she wants neither of us . Many WAS affairs die only to be replaced by another AP . Thats another reason DBing is so important . Show her you are the best choice . Be the the lighthouse Your friend Dawgy


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )