I'm sorry you find yourself here. Your w knows you love her so I don't think disputing irreconcilable differences is the way to go. I would suggest not dragging your feet as it can make you seen obstinate and disrespectful of you wife's wishes.
Around 20% of divorced coupled remarry. Maybe you want to R and then maybe you decide you don't. For now, take care of yourself
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer