I also wanted to chime in from a woman's perspective... well, more a wife's perspective and say that seeing your H getting involved with children, having fun, making them laugh, helping them realize their potential, encouraging them...
Thank you ss. I really appreciate your input. As well as your kind words.
Talk about roller coaster. Last week I was ready to throw in the towel, and this week, I am ready to roll up my sleeves and make another push. No expectation, just do what worked early on, and more of it. I really really recommend everyone, especially those who are on their 4th, 5th, 6th....new threads to start from the beginning and reread. It is amazing how your current perspective at the advice given, and the actions you took prior will make you see things in a new light.
Thanks again ss Always love having you chime in...
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16