I don't think a couple of drinks with lunch occasionally is a problem, but it's every time I see him. And I'm absolutely certain he's having several drinks per evening, too, and I know from the credit card what he's buying. And his dad drinks in a way that is beyond worrisome.
I'm not a prude about drinking. I've never been comfortable with how much he drinks, but I hadn't been troubled by it till the last couple of years.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15