and yes ^ as Maybell said, think through your plan. And how you can state it as a personal boundary, rather than telling him what he is or isn't "allowed" to do.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final