Thanks Lisa. I was considering a 180 by actually CALLING her to ask her about lunch this week. I have not called her just to call her since...oh I dont know, April? May?

Otherwise I would initiate the request by text.

I think what I am dealing with is having to rebuild even a slight interest that she may have had earlier. My actions of late have been moving in the opposite direction, so I have quite a bit of ground to cover. Not sure how to seem over pursuing. But I will definitely consider ways of starting...


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16