To be honest Mr. Bond, I hate to say it but I think she used that as an opportunistic excuse. In other words, most other divorced couples probably wouldn't have contacted their former spouse about such a death...she simply wasn't that close to the family. If it was someone more involved in her life I would most definitely do as you say. However in this case, I think I want to maintain total silence. Also its her Mom's sister and her Mom knew about OM for quite awhile and also bought into his lies and promises too so I feel a bit betrayed by her as well. Even she wasn't super close to her sister on top of it all.

Last edited by ItHurts; 09/08/14 07:42 PM.
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14