Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

Sandi are you saying you can't control this. Because that is what I'm thinking your saying. Because they only way I know is to have an order put on OM from stopping to see your kids. And that's if the court grants you this. Which they probably will not do unless there is risk for the children. Then it looks bad with the wife any ways. So why fight it. You can't control other people. You can voice your opinion and that's it.

My only hope is that actually meeting the kids has some negative affect with OM and wife. Commitment and money and so on and so on. Remember OM is late thirties, never been married and no kids. Big step for somebody that has never had kids or can never have kids with this person(wife) because she can't anymore.