Ok, just had my first DB coaching session. Much of the time was spent with me talking about the history. But my coach did say I need to work on more WOA and keep up the PMA and GAL mentalities when around my W. She also said to drop the LF, especially around W. Hah, I kinda knew that.

I will ask W if she wants to have lunch sometime this week. Maybe she will say yes, maybe she will say no. She has been pretty distant with me lately. Probably my fault, but who knows. The coach said to go back to what was working over the summer, and I am right in the middle of reading all of my journal at that point in time, so find out what was working, and what wasnt. LF obviously was not working. If W says yes, she says yes, if no, well, then no. Life goes on...


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16