So I'm not the only one who messed up this weekend. Retreat! RETREAT!

So we regroup. Put the DR away when you get home.

That letter would make any normal woman's heart melt, but our spouses aren't normal right now. So hide that, too!

Shakespr, this is the toughest thing we've ever done. I didn't have to do chemo when I got the big C, but I bet this is even harder than chemo. We're bound to stumble, especially when a big deadline looms like Oct 20.

I've got Mr. Gritty and me on every prayer list in town. I hope you've done the same. Unfortunately, we've got to remember that the answers to our prayers may not be what we want. Really, I'm not feeling good about your W being D previously. It's like what Pilot said. She's done it before.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R