Yep, it is such an "up and down" thing, I find. One minute I'm fine and looking ahead and the next I'm a sniffling mess.

I try to get it through my head that I just need to let the universe play out as its going to. I remind myself that "what's for me will not go by me" and that I truly, honestly believe that true love will find a way; I just have to sit on my hands and be patient while all the background work is being done.

There's no possible way a WAS isn't thinking about the one they left behind. It's just not possible. I need to give him something good to think about and become someone he'd be CRAZY to let go of!

BF:40 M:33
SD: 12
T: 8, never married, no kids together
BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try".
PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".