Vent away Lisa. And good for you to recognize the roller coaster of emotions. You are feeling this way today. Tomorrow may be different. I find it best to NOT focus on the negatives our spouses have done, or continue to do. Doing so makes it so much harder to push through this already tough enough journey. At the same time, you cannot focus on the good times because that in itself makes it harder to be without them. Sooooooo..........focus on YOU!
ss is right. there are 2 roller coasters. Yours and his. sometimes they meet at the peak, and things are good. sometimes at the bottom and things are really bad. and other times, one is high while the other is low. then things are just confusing!!!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
