Sometimes it's good to let it all out and I think your post was brutally honest. We all know it's not healthy to harbor anger and resentment. And no one wants to be bitter. That's a tough way to live. It can also be difficult to realize they were long gone before BD and that was a mere formality to them. It can make you feel a little silly (or at least I do )emembering things you said or did just a few days and or weeks prior to BD thinking everything was sailing along, huh? I understand and appreciate compassion and empathy, however sometimes we don't always feel it. It ebbs and flows I suppose
For me, I admit it was an ego blow. People who knew us both thought my stbxh out punted his coverage and he had it made. His new friends? They think I'm a boring, older, mommy hag-type. And I'm not, don't know them, so they are entitled to their beliefs.
Everyone gets there on their own time. Hang in there?
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
