Needing to remember today that I am stepping back. I've been fixating a little bit and I don't want to be. I can't fathom him coming back from this. He has wine with lunch and an Irish coffee for dessert on a weekday, at least with me. I don't see him acknowledging that could be a problem. So I need to step back and heal. This isn't on me. Labug said:
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Your H is in a romance with a lover that you can't compete with so don't try. That lover doesn't ask for anything, requires no conversation, accountability or emotion. And it makes him feel oh, so good...for now.
I can't change that. But I am sad to know that's what he's doing to himself.
Stepping back. Stepping back. And remembering that healing isn't all about serenity, though it's nice to enjoy those moments.
I have things to do today, I'm off to start those. He's on my prayer list, I can't do much more than that.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
