Blindsided but finding my way (3)

[SunnyB]

I think my old thread is about to lock, so I'm starting a new one.

Here's the link to the old thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2486085&#Post2486085

I changed the thread name because I don't think I'm lost anymore. I think I am starting to get a sense of the path I want. Maybe there are potholes in the road and sometimes I can't see over the hills, but I am gaining confidence that I can navigate it myself, without H if necessary.