Matt I feel each day I get closer to making that choice to no longer stand! My H is not "mean" he is not "doing" anything other then ignoring his marriage to me and ignoring me as a woman...which is not good, but I'm trying to say... he is coming home after work, home on his day off, stepping up more then in the past to help with our son day to day stuff, he initiates the family day on his day off, he calls me daily, we can and do still laugh and talk about anything. He cooks, cleans (always has. We have sex, He does not complain when I say I need extra money for son or bills (well not like he use to) He still buys me gifts for bday, christmas, anniversay. I mean he is better in alot of ways but has totally shut down on being my H, being my man. It seems like we are maybe working on our friendship which maybe got lost along the way...
It's just not enough for me, and I knwo when I was the WAS it was not enough for him,,,but I dont know how much longer I can continue...
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
