2B, it sounds like H was trying to bait you. He picked up on your subtle hint that you and s were at home without him watching the game. H is trying to throw it back into your face for not being with him and s yesterday morning.

I don't really have any advice for you regarding what to do. I, personally, would not talk to him about the R or M. You could try going darker and see how he responds. Do more for you. Pretend he's a roommate and you've got your own life and schedule at this time.

I never got the chance to do this, H moved out the day he BDed me.

Atsbaby
M:36 H:35
T: 19 M:12
S:11
D:9
BD: 5/4/14
Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her
8/19 admits OW
8/22/14 files D w/o telling me
9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile