Thanks mlc - so much to absorb in those posts, really appreciate you taking the time to join in and comment.

I don't have time to post a full reply to you at the moment - will do so later.
It's been an interesting weekend!

I just wanted to make/add a quick relevant point here though.

My W thought it would be "easier" for me to know that she was with another woman! I said no, for me it's exactly the same..and,

I've been treating as such with my DB'ing


Ages: Me 58 Wife 50
Together: 27 years M25
D24 D21
Bomb Droppped 21 June 2014