"do I push the D through fast as this is my second time dealing with H having an A or just move out and get the paper work going and see what happens."
No one can tell you what the right thing to do is but you. You are the one who has to live with the consequences and you're afraid. I get that. Right now you've threatened your H repeatedly and he kept breaking your boundaries.
Threats don't do any good unless their followed through.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.