I am getting a lot things from her over the last few days. She is saying things that lead me to believe she's tired of this and wants to try but is scared. She has never been good with decisions, and I think is waiting on me to do something to help her along. I don't want to, but I don't want to lose her either. What do I do?
Tonight, we talked about how she feels uncomfortable around me, and doesn't know how to change that feeling to let me back in. She said she just wants to feel like she is living again and not just going through life. She said that she doesn't know how to let me back in and is lost and down. To me it's like she is wanting to do something but is scared to death to get hurt again. I just tried to validate, and told her how I felt. She said that she couldn't say she loves me, but then texts back that she was sorry she wasn't good enough, and that she wasn't good enough to not be where she is so lost. I have no idea where to go with that. I have a feeling I should just try to show more love toward her when we see each other, try to touch her, or slight gestures, but I don't know for sure. My all about being lost!!!!
