The Waiting One (and tired of it)

[daring]

I just love that you are taking dance classes, I've always loved dancing and considered doing a class as part of my GAL. ( even considered a pole dancing exercise class!! if H and I don't work out then it will just benefit the next relationship!) Sounds like you had lots of fun!

" Your dad screws you up, yet you can tell him you love him. I'm supporting and loving and you walk out on me...I really hate this MLC cr@p!"

^^^^ from an earlier post you had- I totally understand this.
I know I was far from the perfect wife and made a lot of mistakes, but I did a lot right too. And H continues to put in his time and emotions to others who often use him or hurt him, and I'm in the wings being supportive and kind with nothing in return from him.
Just have to remind ourselves this is not about us. They aren't leaving because we aren't worth it, it's because deep down they feel worthless. They have to process this in their own time. Sending hugs and support your way!