Hey Cat, long time no read lol. Some men (and women) don't post photos because they are married. They'll send you a photo at a later time if you're interested. They're also fishing, sending out dozens of "Hey, you're hot" messages looking for one who'll answer. I've read that some really attractive women might not post photos because when they do they have to wade through hundreds of "let's do it" messages to find the few good ones. When they find one they'll send photos. I know on POF guys aren't allowed to send photos anymore...guess why! As far as not being sure...that's all of us Cat! My life is fine as is but I miss having someone who actually gives a crap about how my day went. I miss knowing someone thinks of me when they get up in the morning. I miss holding someone's hand. I miss that warm feeling when I think of that person. Does all that add up to committed relationship...I dunno. Thanks for weighing in.