when she said to threaten him a little she meant to make him believe that maybe I have moved on, that he might be losing me. Whew. Ok good. Thanks for clarifying. I agree with ^^^.
Your GAL and being a little mysterious is going to help YOU detach and feel better ... and more independent and sexier and more powerful. And that's what we want!
As for your other question about acting like you don't care, I wrote a lonnnng post in someone else's thread recently to try to explain how I tried to thread the needle between being strong and confident - and laying down boundaries - but also feminine and loving toward H. We don't want you to act like you don't *care*. It's GOOD that you care, and you should be authentic about that. How you SHOW your care is what's important here, and it may be in stark contrast to how you've shown it before or how you *think* you should show it. It's important to show care toward your M - and also yourself. I will find my post and re-post it here soon in the hopes it helps you.
And, oh, you already ARE bada$s. You just have to realize it.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
