Then he said something that made me chuckle on the inside (because I felt part of it was a little off-the-mark, but it also shows the quiet beauty of DB). He said: "My decision to end the A had not much to do with how you were acting. I had to get to that point on my own."
I just replied: "Yeah. I think so, too."
But just for my own personal sh!ts and giggles, I asked: "But what if I would have withdrawn from you entirely and been rude? Or what if I would have begged you to stay and not left you alone?"
And, as expected, he said: "Easy. That would have just driven me away."
Can you please ask a follow-up question to Mr. Train for me (and all of us here)?
-What is his thought of not talking about, bringing up or aknowledging OW at all? -How should the LBS handle the OW's shadow while in an A?
