She came to see me perform in my band last night. Stayed for the whole show and we spend time talking and walking between sets. She reached for me a couple of times, holding my hand. She was proud to call me her husband when speaking to strangers at the club. Afterwards she hugged & kissed me & said she loved me and drove back to RH. She sent me a text when she got back thanking me for the delightful evening. All in all very positive.

The slowness of this whole process is agonizing, but just seeing little glimmers of hope and movement toward R gives me the strength to carry on carrying on.

I hope my sitch is a beacon of hope to those who are in the place I was 6 months ago when I started DBing. And I truly thank all contributors to my sitch - you've all been a godsend. This site is such a positive influence.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014