More nuggets of wisdom from 25 back in June which relates perfectly for where I am today...

Quote:
Me: But a person's spouse is already in an A either EA or PA, how could there possibly be judgement from the other?

25: it's not about their judgement. But it DOES contradict your alleged desire to reconcile AND it smacks of one upmanship AND it also undermines any claim that you think it's wrong to have an affair while still married. Do you not see anything wrong or off about this? I need to know what you personally truly believe about this.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16