Joe, not a 2x4 to you, but just a note/question to all of us-Wonder Woman, Cat Woman, Miss America, and super mom all rolled into one. Show him what he really doesn't want to lose.

Isn't this what makes us a bit crazy to begin with? We think being us isn't good enough and we pressure ourselves to be all of these roles in order to be in a R, or fit in, or be desirable. I know we all have things to work on and improve upon but really, there's a limit. Most of the stuff we need to work on, that makes R work or not, is internal.

Work out, look fabulous, get new perfume, dress attractively but do it because that's who YOU want to be. Because it makes YOU feel good. Long term maintenance of a persona that's not us isn't sustainable.

Hope I'm not being a wet blanket at your beach party. frown

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss