You're all right!!! I always welcome a good 2x4, gentle or otherwise. I was acting like a spoiled, petulant child last night and I needed the whack to the head.
I went to bed last night wondering if I have a problem with compulsive thoughts because I can't snap out of thinking about all of this perpetually. I need to be busier, do more GAL (that doesn't include venting to friends) and having fun. I skipped yoga all last week and I'm feeling the impact emotionally and mentally (and physically I guess). Can't do that anymore. It's what's getting me through next to all of you.
Lisa, I am totally trying to take back control and over the absolute silliest thing - snacks. Really?
If I look at it differently, he's TRYING and frankly, doing his own 180 by not assuming I'm taking care of it all. When I look at it like that, WOW - that's awesome!
He's a man who loves the beach just like I do and we love it even more through our daughter's eyes so what's not to enjoy? Today I will be ME and I am cute, silly, quick witted, fun-loving, energetic, a bit nerdy, independent and occasionally hilariously funny so how could he not LOVE to hang out with me (hahahaha!).
He has D7 tonight so it could be argued that he's not just coming to the beach for D7 because he'd see her in a few hours anyway. Perhaps he misses my swimmer/yoga body, just a little bit.