My question to the vets, obviously I don't want this and she REALLY wants to get this over with. There are things that we haven't discussed at all. I don't want to bring them up because I am trying to detach from it, but how do I let her know it's not too late to save this? I am sure people will say don't bring it up but I need some advice on this
What you have here is basically two opposite opinions, and you want to sway your W over to your way of thinking about saving the M.
The problem lies in the fact you cannot tak her out of a D, and you cannot talk her in to saving the M.
It seems most LBH'S want to save the M or turn the R around by talking. Doesn't work on a WAW. in her mindset, it is too late, and you would be wasting your breathe......and probably make things worse.
You can tell her a D is not what you want, but you won't stand in her way.
That means she has to do the leg work. However, you get legal advice and protect yourself. Just b/c it is not what you want doesn't mean you aren't going to be smart.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
