Let the meet up with him happen in a few days as planned. Take that time to show off your awesomeness. Remember, he needs to remember the good times with you and why he fell in love with you in the first place. You wont get that by ignoring him alone. Think of it as a teasing process. When you see him in a few days, be fun, be happy, be positive, be a tad flirty, then back to NC afterwards. It will confuse him, and make him think. Remember, he has to WANT to pursue you. So give him a reason.

Trust me, we all get the frustration you are feeling. I am there myself. It really helps to remember to think of this as a marathon, or a long process, and in the end, nothing you do today, or even at your meeting will provide a quick fix. Baby steps smile


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16