Living the dream...one day at a time

[wishing, hoping]

Hello all

It's been a busy weekend. And it feels good because guess what? It's not my weekend and I've spent a lot of time with the kids. Yesterday J and OW went to an "adults only" wedding so I got to be with S and D for part of the day. And today S and D have soccer games Two hours distance from each other at the same time. Actually D is having a tournament so I am picking her up soon and spending the day with her there. I won't get to see S's game and that makes me sad, but I can't split myself in two.

So OW's mom passed away last night. J called me this morning and told me all about it. He wants them to go to the funeral, but I told him let me know the plans and we will see how it goes.

I joined Match.com. I decided to try it for a month and see what happens. I've chatted with some people but that's about it. I don't expect much. Frankly I still feel a bit jaded. It's been 15 years since I have been on the dating scene and event though it's on a different media, I still feel nothing much has changed. This is a huge step for me. Still rocking my comfort zone a bit.

I have contacted two other banks to see if I can balance transfer. I don't think it's looking good. But I do feel better taking action about it. I'm gonna do what I can and if J decides to file contempt charges I guess I can't stop him. I don't imagine the judge will do anything if he sees I have been making good faith efforts.

So I am still learning. Life is getting better. I have learned how to roll with the punches a little better. I know that if I am feeling down and think the world is gonna collapse to give it 15 minutes. A lot can happen in that time period.

WH