Throw in a tilt-a-whirl and then you have a pretty accurate description of living with a mlcer. The only way to avoid the nausea and dizziness is to get off the ride. Step off. Rip up your tickets. Let him ride alone.
Please do not let his behavior stop you from going out and having fun more often. My h is the same. He goes and has his life but doesn't want me to have mine.
Nods uh huh! I know that feeling, been living it for years. It's ok for him to accidentally pack up and head away for the weekend but me to spur of the moment do something's not ok.
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Been living it for years Ggrass? Ouch!!! How Ggrass, how?!! Sometimes, I feel I can't live another hour!! YOU will be my inspiration! (just replied to Matt - same w/his W, YEARS!!?).
>> ok for him to accidentally pack up and head away << Interesting little buggers, aren't they? found out 'buddy' here has been checking my GAL activity re: my phone! didn't do it when I had nowhere to go - now it's the questioning, all 'da rage' ... & phone checks. I'm on it though! 2 can play ... thx for 'connecting' - feels somewhat reassuring!
How have YOU been Ggrass?
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
How Ggrass, how?!! Sometimes, I feel I can't live another hour!! 
