Hi Ss, sorry to read that you are having one of those angry, frustrated days. We have all been there for sure! Feel free to vent to us that is why we are here.
A few things that I noticed reading your last few posts: - I thought the conversation with H was good. He was offering to help. Didn't you say a while ago that you tend to control things and always plan everything and be an ultra prepared mom? And that you wanted to let your H be able to do his part without you having to control everything? To me it seems like this is an example of that. Sorry if it sounds like a 2x4. But he offered to bring snacks and you said "I already have snacks dummy!" or maybe I misunderstood. And then it sounds like you are frustrated that he was bringing snacks for her and not you? Or just that he thought you wouldn't already be prepared? Is this really something to get upset about? Sounds like he was trying to help. -what pilot and joe said. This is your chance to show how awesome you are. Be cool but be happy and nice. Don't kiss his arse but be friendly and fun. You catch more flies with honey as they say. This is your time to show him what it could be like if he came back home.
or maybe I misunderstood. And then it sounds like you are frustrated that he was bringing snacks for her and not you? Or just that he thought you wouldn't already be prepared? Is this really something to get upset about? Sounds like he was trying to help.
