Igit newbie needs help part 3

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Pilot I am not sure what is going on with her. She has always refused to see a psychologist. For her individual issues. Today I see bills on counter and there is a bill from 2 recent visits.she was telling me earlier in conversation she doesn't know why she is unhappy. She doesn't want to hurt me and she doesn't want to hurt kids. She is all over the place. I am trying to be as gentle as possible with her but need to face realities of legal stuff. I have been trying to get tax returns for 4 days from her and she is not providing. Tomorrow I may just tell her look I need to give these to my L on monday morning. If you are having second thoughts and want to talk about a different course of action then let's talk about it. I may do the collage of pics.didn't give her anything today. I know things would get back difficult living together going through the process of a D. There is just to many raw emotions. I honestly don't know if I will be able to be her freind for a long time l lif we D. I just think it would be to. Difficult to even see her. She asked me what would be the hardest part for me. I told her saying goodbye to her. I don't think that was what she was expecting. It will be a very emotional week coming up.