Pilot is right. Just be the woman only a fool would leave. Have fun with your daughter (the focus), try to have fun with him, have fun with the people you're meeting...and be the babe at the beach. The one who's glory everyone wants to bask in.

You can continue the meltdown back here tomorrow night.

At the beach you are Wonder Woman, Cat Woman, Miss America, and super mom all rolled into one. Show him what he really doesn't want to lose.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.