igit, I would not rule out the possibility she really is having second thoughts. I have read where it has happened to others that as D date gets close, or in your case, a D deadline, it really starts to hit home with the WAS. She really may be having second thoughts. I am not saying drop your guard, but maybe brush aside some of those boulders on the pathway back home.

I have faith you will know to what extent to expose yourself to an unknown. Keep the faith!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16