I'm sorry you find yourself here. You've received some great advice and it is quite a roller coaster. I'm not an expert, however, when you pull back, you have to pull back. Not pull back for a few days and then let the floodgates open. Detach for YOU! Your W wants to know (and this far she has been proven true) that you are there to catch her. It sounds like you are going a good job GALing so keep it up.
Yes, you can go pretty gosh darn dark with kids. Keep it to logistics (kids, finances. etc) and you will feel so much more relaxed and relieved. Your W wanting to try? Hmmmmmmm. Sounds like a temp check to make sure you are there. Actions speak much, much louder than words.
Keep up the good work and hang in there!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
