Wife Declares She is a Lesbian

[25yearsmlc]

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Wow, I missed this...

I have a gay daughter....I'm mortified that someone with these views lacks the self awareness to censor them.

Don't you know where you are? This is a pro marriage site that does NOT condemn people. We help gays in their marriages too. Did you know that?

And if you had called MY daughter a dyke, knowing what the word means to you,
Wow.

As far as scripture... I went to see a priest and a counselor (who also happened to be a Protestant minister) about my d when she came out. I wanted their advice and their views and guidance.

Both clerics said "No matter what you say or do, do NOT CONDEMN your child for being gay." Even the Pope said "who am I to judge someone who serves God but has those feelings?"

(Of course something tells me you have an anti-Catholic retort to that, but please keep it to yourself).

A mother of a lesbian came to speak to our group (parents and friends of lesbians and gays) and said for 2 years she had read the bible to her lesbian daughter and told her that she, (the daughter) was "an abomination in the eyes of God."

So her daughter finally gave up...and took her life.

The mother came to tell us how wrong SHE/the mother had been. To use God's teachings to hurt someone, instead of showing them Christ's compassion and love, really is like blasphemy.

I don't know how or why you are on this site but I cannot help but believe that your views and how you deliver them and

how you personally attack those with whom you disagree, isn't a factor in how you got here. Speak to your clergy and get yourself right with God, and start there.

Then see how your situation might improve but please keep the bigoted hatred to yourself.

If you cannot see why we all have this visceral reaction to your words, you ought to seek some counseling b/c I'm aghast that you did not have the insight to know how those comments would be received here. You are out of touch with mainstream thought and as much as you believe we have lost our moral compass why don't you show us where Christ said "Condemning people gets them closer to God."

Our priest said to our d "You are not alone, and you are loved."

^^^^THAT IS MODERN CHRISTIAN THEOLOGY