I second what Ss06 said. Wonks has been a great source of wisdom. Commitment is commitment no matter what you name it and no matter the orientation. You political and/or religious views have no business here and you are in no way helping essjay.

Wonks, your thoughts and opinion are valued here by many. Don't let a knucklehead deter you from helping the rest of us.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.