Hugs!

I feel your frustration CaliGuy! I let mine get too close and now I'm back on this stupid roller coaster.

What if you were less available on the weekends for her. I know you want to be there for her, especially emotional, but I think this is where you need to pull back. She knows you're going to pursue, that has been what happened in the past (our R was the same way). Pull back more, GAL more Saturday and Sunday without her. Go to work, then pick up S and take him to church with you. Just tell her you have plans with S and leave.

You'll get though this, just like we all will. Hang in there!

Last edited by Atsbaby; 09/06/14 09:31 PM.
Atsbaby
M:36 H:35
T: 19 M:12
S:11
D:9
BD: 5/4/14
Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her
8/19 admits OW
8/22/14 files D w/o telling me
9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile