Hey Tarheel -

I am following along with your stitch. It seems we have very similar situations. Except I have a WAH. My H & I are working on piecing. I guess. He has said he wants to work on the marriage and the issues before he told me things were over. He has said & done a lot of similar things as your wife. Balks at transparency - because that means I'm controlling. He still can't believe I went thru his phone & the invasion of his "privacy". And the PA which my H won't answer questions about right now. I originally thought would be a deal breaker, I'm trying to leave it alone until we meet with MC.
I don't have much to add but I think you are getting some really great help here.

Hope your date goes good tonight. Good Luck!


H:40
Me:35
D5
S4
S3 months
Married 8 years Together 17 years
BD: 5/23/2014