still holding on - 4

[u-turn]

So a quick question to the room:

She says to want to reconnect with me - (she still has feelings... etc. for OM though). I am trying to detach and I have been given advise here detach, but also to reconnect, then work on trust and everything else that goes along with it.

She wants to do normal date type things on weekends. Including today - she wants to go to a place we used to go (wine tasting used to be fun and romantic).

Is this cake eating or a real move forward? I think I should go and be my best me, show her we can still do this. Show her that we can still have fun (like it used to be).

But then again it may just be playing into and allowing her double life to work for her.

Thoughts?