Well I found a great marriage counselor here in my home town and went yesterday (by myself of course). Come to find out she actually trained with MWD (what luck!). She gave me some great tips and things to try - like changing things about me to get his attention, be less available, a little mysterious (things that Train had said to do) and to threaten him a little bit. And to post things I'm doing on FB. Am anxious to see if these things work. Please pray that they do!
One thing she did mention that really bummed me out was that his A could last (or the limerance attached to it) for six months to THREE YEARS! Guess I will know when the time comes whether I want to hang on that long.