Igit newbie needs help part 3

[bdub]

igit, my BD was 4 days before our 15th anniversary. I feel the pain you are experiencing. I switched gifts and went with a card basically thanking her for 15 years of marriage and 2 wonderful children. I did write that I loved her and that I was sorry I was not able to communicate that to her more effectively. That was prior to reading DR and DB and being on this board. I got nothing and that stung. However, now I know I should have had 0 expectations.