Pilot, your DB coach will give you some insight and approaches you may have never thought of. Mine definitely gave me some good questions to ask her during conversations I have had with W. I thought at the time they had some impact. then I backslide and it seams take steps backward. Not sure who your DB coach is but mine has become a great friend to talk with during this crisis. She understands the impact of Affair and whats going on in WAW mind. She suggested great books to read! That being said I hope things change in your R with W. I know where I fell short in R with her and know are R will never be the same again. That's great you have a good relationship with her folks. Her wanting this time alone may work to your advantage with there feelings for you. Hang in there buddy live for today because tomorrow isn't promised.


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14