So I woke up this morning a bit agitated about the divorce process in this state and my wifes MLC detachment from reality. The Connecticut court system forces divorces along on a timeline. It expects both parties to work together to meet certain goals during the process. After you file you have 90 days to put thing in order and file a case file. To meet these goals it takes both parties to discuss things to create parenting plans, division of property and such. Up to this last week there has been basically no contact with my wife. I have left it up to her to carry this as she is the one who wants it and has to initiate certain parts of it based on the way things are set up. On Monday we go in to court with nothing done. It will cost $600.00 plus each for this pleasure. Its almost like deep down there is some thread of activity within her that does not want this or to let go.
It never ceases to amaze me how out of touch a person going through MLC can become. It is a wonder they can function at work. I wish there was a law that in order for a person to initiate a divorce they have to be able to understand the requirement and be fully able to function and follow through with the requirements.
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